How do you get over being misunderstood, internally and externally?

hmmmm this is a really deep question, i'm curious to whose asking...
Well even though thats like to me the worst thing that could happen, being misunderstood. To me, it took awhile to get over. IT really just depends on who is misunderstanding me.

Friends misunderstanding you can be stressful and hard and sometimes hurtful but what i did was: When my friends misunderstood me and thought that i "abandoned" them and only had interest in my boyfriend and no longer care for them, IT WASN'T TRUE....I did care and like them a lot......there was so much going on in my own life with family and boyfriend and money and stress that I didn't have the time to hang out anymore for a long time....HOW I HANDLED IT? well I had other people who understood me and knew me better so they stuck by me when it was rough for me. I find that more cherish-able. The people who didn't understand and thought wrongly of me and then i guess start assuming and possibly spreading rumors, they just drifted further from me. They no longer seemed to care for me and I didn't seem bothered by it as much now. I felt why should i be sad and stressed over false lies and people who can only assume wrongly of me. I pretty much moved on through what i had to do in life without them. They didn't seem to care to text or call me but yet they demanded that I should text and stay in contact with them. They and everyone HAVE to understand THAT everyone has different lives. Yes we are all friends and we care if one another is hurt, but we don't go through the same stressful situations. A true friend would stuck by you if they understand that main thing. If they demand this and that without thinking with an open mind, they are basically not as caring for you as you think they are.

Family misunderstanding you is what I think is second to worst, because you can't fight them. They don't live through what you live through, so they don't understand. Sometimes what they say and think hurts you the most, because they are your family. Out of everyone in the world, they are suppose to love you the most no matter what. If they are misunderstanding you for something you did not do but they are assuming so, the only way I got over it.....was to ignore it and prove them wrong. But in the end, my family usually always keep misunderstanding me on some things and I can't seem to change that no matter how hard I try....But I TRY HARD to not let their misunderstanding of me hurt me. If you know what I mean. My sentences are rambling ...because i'm writing exactly how I would say it in person. Just don't let it get to you. If for sure its an misunderstanding...then it shouldn't hurt you as much as it is, because ITS NOT TRUE no matter how much they insist it is...its JUST A MISUNDERSTANDING.

Boyfriend/Girlfriend misunderstanding you is THE WORST! Because it hurts the most, to have the person you trust the most in the world, think wrongly of you. The person who you think would know you the most, assume wrongly of you. Whether it can be something he/she thinks that you did, but you didn't at all.....or something that you said but he/she misinterpret it....the only thing that you can do in this case and what I have done..... is that I kept reassuring him that its not true and expressing and i mean EXPRESSING all that I FELT and my OPINIONS throughly to him. I was trying to make sure he wouldn't misunderstand me anymore. That it isn't right.

I guess through any type of misunderstanding that someone or some people may have on you...it really depends on who they are because then I handled it differently with my friends, family and boyfriend....

People who really love you and care for you would always stick by you... If its an misunderstand you can easily prove to them wrong and provide proof to prove your innocence---go ahead! But if its more difficult...the FIRST THING TO DO, is to calm yourself down first and breathe and not think so much that you would cause more stress to yourself. Take care of your emotions and act calmly and patiently...don't rush anything because there is no need, it would only make things rushed and perhaps mislead them more.

Don't stress out yourself....everyone go through these types of misunderstandings....the first thing to do to get over it.....is to stay calm and believe in your innocence and your truth. (Yes this sounds really cheesy, but this is the only way you can calmly then proceed to think clearly and be able to think of a way to handle the situation.) Don't worry too much. Don't stress yourself out. Are they somewhere right now stressing about how they believe whatever it is is true? No they are not stressing out about it....so you should stop too. Don't waste your precious time and your health stressing and worrying about how someone or some people is misunderstanding you......there are many people who can relate to what you are going through....there is more than 6 billion people in the world....you are not alone in this...so don't think "no one understands me" "no one knows what i'm going through" "no one can help me"

You can get over this :) I know it. Truthfully, I'm a weak person emotionally, I take people's opinions sometimes too harshly on myself and I stress myself out....but as the years go on, those people's opinions fade...so don't let stress fade your life away. Don't let stress show on your face...its like showing yourself defeated. You aren't defeated....its just a drama at the moment, a stress at the moment...it'll be over soon....If you need anything just contact me :) you know how and where to find me :)

So calm down and smile :) and think clearly and handle it with a clear and open mind :)

Good luck anonymous :D

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